The Hasida and the Hasid kind to one's own kind, ignore the the outsider |
My effort to counter prejudice begins with me,
extends to my own group, then wider. Over the Passover festival I read a moving
story called the “The Ballad of the Monkey’s Wedding”.[1] A
Black maid named Willomeena is portrayed with deep respect and affection. This
should not be a big deal but unfortunately, it is somewhat rare in recent
ultra-orthodox and Hasidic Jewish literature. In one inspiring story a Roma woman
named Chungarabi saves the life of the main protagonist at great risk to
herself and her husband. Yet, the translator can’t help herself and suggests
that perhaps Chungarabi was not a ‘real Gypsy, instead she might have been a
descendent of a Jewish child kidnapped by the Gypsies’[2]. I
wanted to scream when I read that.
More broadly, I want to explore how people who
are conscientious in certain aspects of our lives get it wrong in other areas. I
will consider the example of my Hasidic community. My exploration will touch on
the stork as a symbol, because this bird is called חסידה Hasida in Hebrew,
essentially the same word as Hasid[3], both
words relating to kindness and piety.
UnKosher but kind Stork/Hasida and the Hasidim
Description of the Stork in morality tale from 1831 |
The Hebrew word for the White Stork Hasidah,
means "kind" and the reason given for this name is because it does
kindness with “her friends”[4]. It
is said to actively gather food for its friends[5].
This view extends beyond Jewish sources; the stork has been described as
affectionate in a book from the 1830’s that encourages children to be kind like
the stork[6].
Despite the positive characterization of the
stork, it is a non-kosher bird[7]. This
is puzzling, as Non-Kosher birds were thought to have cruel characteristics, “they
eat their prey while they are still alive[8],
their blood is hot to cruelty and black…it puts cruelty in to the heart”
(of the person eating it)[9]. A Hasidic resolution of this problem focuses
on the limited scope of the stork’s kindness; “its friends”[10].
Kindness that is restricted in this way is certainly not kosher.
This criticism of the stork resonates for me.
In my Hasidic community we have great generosity, giving to the poor is
considered simply an act of justice rather than charity[11].
An enduring image from my childhood is of people throwing dollar bills into Mr.
Shimshon Stock’s bag as he walked on the backs of the benches, then he came back
for a second round with the line “there is a hole in the bag”. In my own experience, I would spend
lunchtimes almost every day as a 14-15 year old visiting sick Jews in hospital,
praying with them and chatting. Yet our kindness focused almost exclusively
within the community. I find it staggering that I was never told about Martin
Luther King Jnr’s “I have a dream speech” and the change he called for.
Piety
While other teenagers have focused their
idealism outwardly, our moral teachings directed me inward. For example when I
was in London as a 16 year old, I never bothered to visit the sights because I
saw that as a distraction from worship. More broadly, we learned to view the
sensual with suspicion. In Hasidism we are taught that nothing is neutral. Everything,
either contributes to worship or is seen as aligned with “the other side[12]”.
The stork is said to be the most pious of
birds, therefor angels have been compared to it[13]. In
some commentaries the stork is said to immerse itself in water after mating[14].
Many Hasidim will immerse in water prior to prayers every day, at least in part
to purify themselves of any spiritual impurity relating to emission of semen. I
wonder if the degree of priority Hasidim devote to the focus on the containment
of the physical aspects of life, risks leaving less head space for issues like
prejudice. Of course, self-denial could work the other way and sensitize
Hasidim to others, including non-Jews and minorities. Either way, meticulous
attention to any one area of virtue, be it social justice, ritual or any other
cause, does not make us “Kosher”.
Transcendence, idealism, the letter Chet and
the number 8
According to the mystics the Hebrew names of
everything tells us about its character, the first letter is the most
significant[15].
The first letter of both Hasida/the name of the stork and the Hasid is Chet ח. It
is the 8th letter and symbolizes transcendence, coming after seven
which relates to the days of a week and the normal cycle. The appearance of the
letter ח is
related to a gateway to another dimension[16].
In striving to go higher, some idealists neglect more mundane worldly obligations to family or others. Nadav and Avihu the two sons of Aaron (the brother of Moses) passionately wanted to add “love to love[17]” and spontaneously brought an authorized offering to the temple[18] with great joy[19]. These two men were said to be closer to God than Moses and in such spiritual ecstasy that their souls left their bodies out of intense longing for God[20]. Yet, in their enthusiasm, they disregarded the authority of Moses, might have been drunk, neglected the ritual washing (unlike the stork), and are even said to show impatience to replace their father and Moses. “A bit more, and these oldies will die and we will lead the congregation[21]”.
Nadav and Avihu neglected one critical bit of the letter Chet. It is linked strongly to the word for life, Chai, or Chayim as it represents the pulse of life, which includes both running to God but then returning to the world to carry out our obligations here[22].
In striving to go higher, some idealists neglect more mundane worldly obligations to family or others. Nadav and Avihu the two sons of Aaron (the brother of Moses) passionately wanted to add “love to love[17]” and spontaneously brought an authorized offering to the temple[18] with great joy[19]. These two men were said to be closer to God than Moses and in such spiritual ecstasy that their souls left their bodies out of intense longing for God[20]. Yet, in their enthusiasm, they disregarded the authority of Moses, might have been drunk, neglected the ritual washing (unlike the stork), and are even said to show impatience to replace their father and Moses. “A bit more, and these oldies will die and we will lead the congregation[21]”.
Nadav and Avihu neglected one critical bit of the letter Chet. It is linked strongly to the word for life, Chai, or Chayim as it represents the pulse of life, which includes both running to God but then returning to the world to carry out our obligations here[22].
Humility and Self criticism
One of the strengths of
Hasidim and many idealistic people is an emphasis on humility and Self-
criticism. We are told that Aaron was hesitant to carry out his role as the
high priest in the initial offering of the new temple. He was concerned of his
past failings. Moses tells him, not to worry, “for this, you have been chosen[23]”. Another
take on Moses’ reassurance is that it is precisely, “this”, namely, Aaron’s
concern that he might not be worthy that is his most admirable quality and
makes him worthy to undertake his high role[24].
Conclusion
As we strive to be
better, we need to be alert to how we might fall short, especially in areas
that are we not focused on. I need to contribute to and care for my own
community and “friends” as the Hasida does, but also beyond its limits. There
is value in activity, ritual and “washing”, but it takes more than that to be
“Kosher”. Like life itself, there is a pulse and a rhythm, one moment to try to
‘touch heaven’ but then the next minute to get back to our task here on earth
with all its challenges and its great diversity of precious people.
May the memory of all who perished be for a blessing.
May the memory of all who perished be for a blessing.
[1] Shapiro, S ed., (1991), An Anthology of Jewish Women’s Writings, Our
Lives, Targum Press, Southfield, MI, p.15
[2] Cohen, M, (2007) A Daughter of Two Mothers, Feldheim Publishers,
Jerusalem
[3] Another connection between Hasidim and the stork relates to the Aramaic
translation of the word Hasida/white stork as “White/chivarta ”. Hasidim
typically face ridicule because of their devotions to the point that “the color
drained from their faces”, yet they do not abandon their pious practices (Paneach
Raza, cited in Torah Shlaima, vol
28, p.105). The
early history of the Hasidism includes many episodes of mockery, even violence
from others who did not share their convictions and practices. This aspect
could motivate Hasidim to work for the dignity of all, such Hasidic pioneer of
coexistence, Lee Wiseman of Jihadi Jew http://jihadiyehudi.blogspot.com.au/
and http://www.facebook.com/groups/jihadijew/
.
[4] Talmud, Hullin 63a, Rashi on Leviticus 11:19
[6] Simpkins, N.S, S.G., (1831), Descriptive Scenes for Children,
Boston http://www.archive.org/stream/descriptivescene00bostiala#page/n0/mode/1up,
[9] Ramban on Leviticus 11:13
[12] Tanya, R. Schneur Zalman of Liadi, chapter 6, “Similarly, all words
and all thoughts that are not directed to G‑d and to His Will and His service are all garments for the animal
soul. For this is the meaning of the term sitra achra — literally “the other
side,” i.e., not the side of holiness. Thus, whatever does not belong to the
realm of holiness is sitra achra. But what, in fact, does the realm of holiness
encompass? (In the Lessons in Tanya version)
[14] Chemdat Yamim Part 1,
p.69, cited in Torah Shlaima, vol 28, p.105. I have not been able to find any
clear reference to this practice in other sources. I found the following
statement “Breeding White Storks prefer lowland open habitats of wet pastures,
flooded meadows, and shallow lakes and marshes with scattered trees for
roosting and nesting.” http://nationalzoo.si.edu/Animals/Birds/Facts/FactSheets/fact-europwhitestork.cfm
[19] Torah Cohanim
[24] Mincha Belula, cited
in Greenberg, A, Y, Torah Gems, Vol. 3, Y Orenstien/Yavneh Publishing/Chemed
Books
At the end of the day, empathy is what was missing in the story of Aaron's sons. It is also missing from those who confine their kindness to those in one's immediate circle. What is kindness exclusively to one's own if not a type of insurance policy - that the kindness will be rewarded in one form or another? As my late grandmother used to tell me: "I don't want you to be good for a reward. I want you to be good for nothing". :)
ReplyDeleteI like your idea of an "insurance policy" about such kindness being less that the real thing.
DeleteAnd what a great line, "...want you to be good for nothing". I would imagine she missed the pun, but it helps give her message an extra zing.
I searched "Daughter of Two Mothers" for the phrase ‘real Gypsy, instead she might have been a descendent of a Jewish child kidnapped by the Gypsies’. But it did not appear on the Googlebooks version. Can you provide a page number?
ReplyDeleteSorry, I don't have the page number. I read the book at the time I posted. Apart from that one comment, I thought it was a great story.
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